Whenever men and women are in conflict, the dialogue appears to have been written in English by three drunks of varying nationalities, none of whom speaks the others' languages.
The conclusion reached by many over the tortured course of history is that the two sexes have fundamentally different makeups. This includes their brains.
A neuroscientist has stepped forward to remind everyone that men and women have the same brains. They just use them differently on occasion.